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I Intermittent Fast on a daily basis.
Intermittent fasting or IMF has become a meme in the past half-decade or so in the health and fitness world. What a novel concept, the less time that you are eating, the less likely you are to overeat. How groundbreaking!
One day, in the middle of a fast, I had a thought: “What if I could do the same for my technological use?”
I thought about how many hours a day I spend in front of a screen, and about how much of that time is actually wasted in distraction. This ratio of wasted time to productive time was something like 2:1 if I was being blatantly honest with myself. For many, that ratio is even higher.
What if I could concentrate my productivity into an 8-hour window, where I was 100% on, instead of being partially in and out of various things I was doing?
And, when I was switched off, I was 100% OFF - resting my mind and eyes.
This question brought me to experiment with “Intermittent Phone fasting” - A period in which I disallowed myself any use of consumptive devices and focused 100% on productivity.
Then, I want you to choose a ’consumptive time’ per day you will allow yourself on a screen.
Whatever time you allot for your screen time - you will not go over for any purpose. You will use your devices (phone, computer, tablet) within the window, and will completely eschew them outside this window of allowance. Sounds difficult? Probably because for a modern human, it is difficult.
We have all been there. You are working away on something - only to have to look something up, or watch a video on how to progress. That video or article turns into hours of wasted time as you get pulled further and further down the rabbit hole of endless scrolling.
The internet is an Infinite Rabbit Hole - you could seek for years and still not find. You could research every topic in the world and never even scratch the surface.
That’s not to say that we have to go all Uncle Ted on the world and shun technology in favor of more archaic (read: Amish) methods. What it is to say is that we have to responsibly use the gifts that we have been given, and if we are able to, we can create some amazing and life-changing things. But the double-edged sword of it all is that we can also become distracted for eternity.
What this really is - is a Technology Fast.
The fact of the matter is that we as humans are fatigued with the overconsumption of information. We simply shut down, and become unable to come to conclusions or to get to a meaningful level of producing. We condition a consumption default state instead of a default state which we create. Worse, we lose our own creative spark when all we do is watch other people be creative.
We become imitators instead of disruptors.
I am no stranger to burnout, where I want to get things done, yet I seemingly have no gas left in the tank. The secret to avoiding “burnout” is being 100% on when you’re on, and 100% off when you are not (also to LOVE what you do, but that is a topic for another day.)
We’ve all been there. Consuming videos, news stories, forum posts, and social media scrolling to the point that we look at our screen time and gasp it’s over 9,000. I don’t like to admit it, but I have most definitely done it in the past, and as a human being, I am sure I am liable to do it again.
Because of the overload that will inevitably come from scrolling. We’ve all done it too much over the last two years, you can admit it to yourself, nobody is here for you to brag about “how few hours you use your phone” - be honest with yourself.
When you begin to only allow 8 - 12 hours of internet access per day, you use this time wisely.
When the internet (and time in front of a screen) becomes a scarcity instead of an abundant thing that is always there, you value it more.
I argue that with infinite time, you take in infinitely more garbage.
If you want to spend time talking to people, spend time with them in person.
I am horrendously bad at talking on the phone at length about anything important. I find the issue with phone conversation is that you miss all body language cues, and thus about 75% of the conversation is lost in translation. It is also difficult to focus on the conversation at hand without doing other things while talking. No eye-contact.
This is not to say that you shouldn’t spend time with others. Arguably, with less time online, you will have more time to give others your full attention and meaningful connection.
This fasting method severely limits this endless search. See point #1 - We value what is scarce.
If our time online is scarce rather than abundant, we begin to look for higher-quality information, ignoring much more of the noise.
Rabbit Holes are fun. But they are also a massive waste of time.
Working from home has its benefits, however, one of the obvious cons (pun intended) is that you are now continually on the clock because you are always connected (get it - con because your employer gets to con you out of more time… no? okay)
There are obvious benefits to this, however, the main sufferer is your mental health which never gets to appreciate the little things.
Switch off, my friend.
Lastly, and perhaps most impactful is that you begin to value everyday life more.
You get to relax when you want to.
We as humans need this in-person, real, tangible, worthwhile existence.
This takes me to about 2 hours after I wake up.
I then do a 30-minute workout, where the phone joins me, however, it is still on airplane mode, I will have a book or podcast downloaded that I listen to while doing my workout.
I then shower, and get ready for the day, and only after am I dressed does airplane mode come off.
This is usually around 8:30-9am.
My technology time begins, and I have 8-10 hours to get done what I need to get done. Some days this goes up to 12 hours if I am especially productive.
My phone doesn’t join me in my office - it stays outside where if it rings I will grab it, but otherwise, it is completely out of reach so that I can focus on the things I am building.
At the latest - 9 pm - my phone is off and you aren’t able to get a hold of me until tomorrow morning.
I begin my bedtime routine by shutting off the phone and computer.
There are exceptions to this if I am in the middle of a deal or something, but that is rare - it happens maybe a couple of times a year that I go late on deals. And - I’ve had other people thank me for shutting down because they wanted to shut off too.
I love the shut-off time. It allows me to power down my mind - I stop thinking about work, I begin to relax, and I can get to sleep far more easily.
Try this phone diet - 9 am to 9 pm - and then completely shut it off while you are sleeping and in the morning when you can focus your efforts on your mind, body, and business.
If you do this religiously, I guarantee that in a month’s time, you will be shocked by the things that you have created. You will be miles ahead of where you are today. Most of us know we aren’t really getting fulfillment from infinite scrolling, we are just wasting our most valuable resource - time.
So, take back your time and use the phone as if it were a tool.