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Gratitude works its magic by serving as an antidote to negative emotions. It’s like white blood cells for the soul, protecting us from cynicism, entitlement, anger, and resignation. — Arianna Huffington, Thrive.There’s so much power and pleasure in the feeling of gratitude. Appreciation for something — or someone — fuels a positive mental attitude and has been scientifically proven to increase happiness and joy in our lives.From Oprah to Tim Ferriss to Arianna Huffington to Emma Watson, these four successful business owners, entrepreneurs, and celebrities have the art of practicing gratitude in common.
Be grateful. Focus on joy.
Tim says,“It’s easy to obsess over pushing the ball forward as a type-A personality, which leads to being constantly future-focused. If anxiety is a focus on the future, practicing appreciation, even for 2 to 3 minutes, is counter-balancing medicine.”
“I go through the day looking for things to be grateful for, and something always shows up.”
I bet it’s pretty easy to find things to be grateful for when you are Oprah,
but we mere mortals can benefit from this practice also.
“I love the idea of starting my day by listing three things I’m grateful for and going to bed thinking about the three amazing things that happened in the day. I’m a big believer in the transformative practice of gratitude.”
Robert Emmons of says gratitude may seem like a simple emotion, but he argues that appreciation inspires kindness, connection, and transformative life changes.
Emmons’s research partnership with at the University of Miami has led to several significant findings about gratitude,“We’ve discovered scientific proof that when people regularly work on cultivating gratitude, they experience a variety of measurable benefits: psychological, physical, and social. In some cases, people have reported that gratitude led to transformative life changes.”In one study, Emmons and McCullough asked participants to keep a gratitude journal every day for two weeks. Those who kept a gratitude journal reported feeling “more joyful, enthusiastic, interested, attentive, energetic, excited, determined, and strong.”
Although, again, keeping a gratitude journal is personal, and there is no one “right” way to do it. Choose any time of day to write in your journal. Some keep a journal right on their nightstand and write what they are grateful for right before bed. Writing in the evening gives you a chance to reflect on the day and can serve as a nightly ritual. Writing before bed is a great way to quiet your mind. Write regularly, whether that is in the morning or at night, make it a routine, and honor that commitment.
The goal of journaling is to remember the good things — a person, an experience, an event — and then relish in the good feelings as you are writing about them. See these things as “gifts.” When you view them as gifts, you are less likely to take them for granted.When you choose to focus on the positive things happening in your life,
instead of the negative stuff, you will attract more good things to you,
and bring in more happiness.
Gratitude and joy are strongly correlated — the research bears this out.
Gratitude moves people to experience more positive emotions. When we focus on what we are grateful for, it reminds us that life is indeed good.
Intentional activity — writing in a gratitude journal — accounts for
about 40% of our happiness, according to .
By maintaining a gratitude journal, we further focus on intentional action by reflecting on those positive things that happened to us throughout
the day, which increases our joy.
With the holidays quickly approaching, appreciate the many gifts — like
family and friends — and include them in your gratitude journal.